I wonder?

if you have to bring something up even when it's something currently bothering you, are you really over it? I feel like when you're really over something, it shouldn't really come to mind and you shouldn't feel the need to complain about it and say that you're happy they're not in your life anymore. I feel like you're still clearly bothered by it if you feel the need to sat that. Am I right? Is it wrong to get involved in something thats just finally getting finished up? Even if two people say they're over the past, can one still linger? It takes a lot to really know a person and figure out what's going through their head but how do you even begin to try to judge whether or not they're over something. I don't want to point fingers but I then again no one wants to set themselves up for failure. Well, let's all hope that you are actually over it and you bringing it up was just you venting. Here's to hoping.